Relationships and Dating

Trust. The one consistent thing I’ve managed to lose over the years. Humans can not be trusted. Just so we’re clear, if you think you know someone , think again. You don’t. Trust sparingly, leave room for disappointment but love fully. And considering how fragile trust is, love with open... Read more

Trust. The one consistent thing I’ve managed to lose over the years. Humans can not be trusted. Just so we’re clear, if you think you know someone , think again. You don’t. Trust sparingly, leave room for disappointment but love fully. And considering how fragile trust is, love with open... Read more

I talk about flying far away from assuming and I fell into the trap myself. I assumed my way into boundaries that weren’t meant for me. I realized I’d kill for people who would never pull a chair out for me. So much is masked in familiarity and history and... Read more

I talk about flying far away from assuming and I fell into the trap myself. I assumed my way into boundaries that weren’t meant for me. I realized I’d kill for people who would never pull a chair out for me. So much is masked in familiarity and history and... Read more

Dating in Zimbabwe is a lot like dating in any other country. You meet someone, you get to know them, you like them, and then you decide if they’re worth the time and effort it takes to pursue a relationship. The only difference is that here in Zimbabwe, there are... Read more

Dating in Zimbabwe is a lot like dating in any other country. You meet someone, you get to know them, you like them, and then you decide if they’re worth the time and effort it takes to pursue a relationship. The only difference is that here in Zimbabwe, there are... Read more

Dating in Zimbabwe is a lot like dating in any other country. You meet someone, you get to know them, you like them, and then you decide if they’re worth the time and effort it takes to pursue a relationship. The only difference is that here in Zimbabwe, there are... Read more

Dating in Zimbabwe is a lot like dating in any other country. You meet someone, you get to know them, you like them, and then you decide if they’re worth the time and effort it takes to pursue a relationship. The only difference is that here in Zimbabwe, there are... Read more

Dating in Zimbabwe is a lot like dating in any other country. You meet someone, you get to know them, you like them, and then you decide if they’re worth the time and effort it takes to pursue a relationship. The only difference is that here in Zimbabwe, there are... Read more

Dating in Zimbabwe is a lot like dating in any other country. You meet someone, you get to know them, you like them, and then you decide if they’re worth the time and effort it takes to pursue a relationship. The only difference is that here in Zimbabwe, there are... Read more

Growing up I never had the actual sex talk with my mother. All I was ever told was not to play with boys and that they were just after my vagina. We never spoke about condom use, contraception and consent issues like what is happening these days. When I found... Read more

Ah, The One That Got Away. Or the one on his way out. You think you know everything about him—his favorite color, his favorite food, his favorite genre of movies—but it’s only when you realize he doesn’t love you anymore that you realize you never really knew. Communication dies Communication... Read more

Ah, The One That Got Away. Or the one on his way out. You think you know everything about him—his favorite color, his favorite food, his favorite genre of movies—but it’s only when you realize he doesn’t love you anymore that you realize you never really knew. Communication dies Communication... Read more

For some men, the news that you’re going to be a dad can bring about a mix of feelings some positive, some not so positive. You could feel panic, anxiety, shock or numbness at first. This was the situation with Zoey’s dad. In my previous post I did mention that... Read more

The feeling of anxiously waiting to miss your period for a planned pregnancy and the feeling of missing your period after taking the plan B pill is different. My pregnancy was not planned and when my period was ten days late I knew it was late for me (pun intended).... Read more